How a Borderline Relationship Evolves
Roger Melton, M.A. Psychotherapist and writer from Los Angeles, California Adapted by Facing The Facts
En español (usen google) lo que dice es que es un tipo de mina trastornada que se hace la pobre víctima de sus relaciones anteriores y te hace creer que vos sos diferente porque la entenés, después se te cuelga y al final te destruye!. Le puede tomar poco o mucho tiempo.
Regardless of how a Controller with Borderline Personality Disorder can alter and tailor her appearance and actions to deceive others, she still presents with a clear and characteristic personality pattern over time. This pattern usually evolves through three stages: The Vulnerable Seducer, The Clinger, and The Hater. This evolution may take months, and sometimes even years to cycle through. In the later stage, the personality often swings wildly from one role to the next.
In the beginning, you will feel a rapidly accelerating sense of compassion because she is a master at portraying herself as she "victim of love" and you are saving her. But listen closely to how she sees herself as a victim. As her peculiar emotional invasion advances upon you, you will hear how no one understands her - except you. Other people have been "insensitive." She has been betrayed, just when she starts trusting people. But there is something "special" about you, because "you really seem to know her."